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The Sugars take a question from a newly married woman who is facing a nightmare — the man of her dreams has turned out to be someone else entirely, someone she cannot reconcile with the man she knew.
They are joined by the writer Julie Metz, who tells the story of discovering her own husband's double life following his early and unexpected death. She helps in answering the letter writer's ultimate question: do I stay and make a life with a man who is not the person I thought I married?
New episodes of Dear Sugar Radio are released weekly.