We're working on a project reflecting back on the 10 years since the 2013 Boston Marathon bombing. How do we reclaim something we love, when it's forever marked by tragedy? We'd love to hear your story.

Absent some kind of cultural revolution in how average citizens relate to our military and to policymaking, I fear we are doomed to repeat the mistakes of the past, writes Andrew Carleen, a U.S. Navy veteran.